When you’re loved ones are ready to seek help one of the decisions that they may also face is the decision to consider moving in with their son or daughter and their families. It is hard enough to imagine what our parents are going through when they are in need of assistance but let’s face it moving is tough for anyone and it’s especially tough on seniors.  It means giving up their independence and admitting  and coming to a realization that they DO need help.  As our loved ones are facing these issues we should do our part and educate ourselves to help ease their transition.

What you can do to help…

1.  Get them involved in any decision making… They already feel that they are losing their independence but by involving them in the planning process will give them some aspect of control and that they are still a part of the decision making.

2. Be patient and kind… There’s nothing more stressful than having someone yell or criticize.  Keep in mind that they are going to be slower than usual because of their difficulties, be patient.

3.  Be helpful… Help them sort through their things.  If your parents have lived in the same house there may be a lot of things to sort through. While it can seem overwhelming, make a plan, get organized and always ask if they would like to keep it or possibly donate it.

4.  Keep a log of where things are placed, take pictures if you have to… Seniors are creatures of habit, they like their things in the same place. By keeping things the same will lessen their stress and will make their new surroundings familiar to them.

5. Plan ahead… Don’t wait till the last minute to tell your loved ones about the move. It should be told in advance so that they have enough time to get acclimated with the idea of moving.  Be understanding as it might take some time to warm up to the idea.