Caring For Your Parents When You Live Far Away in LaGrange, IL.

Caring for your parents when you are far away can be quite a task to manage. It is even harder when you don’t live in the same city, let alone the same state. There are caregivers that can do it all from a distance and ones who are eager to lend a hand even when they aren’t the ones that are in charge.

Below are some helpful tips for the caregivers that live long distance who wants to try to do it all:

  • Avoid the relocation reaction.  Before moving your elder to your home allow extra time for them to consider other options.
  • Do an on-site comprehensive assessment of your elder’s situation.
  • Arrange for home health care providers and special programs like Meals on Wheels and transportation services for the frail elderly.
  • Ask for help from family members, friends and even neighbors.
  • Ask neighbors, friends, or relatives to visit your elder regularly to spot problems that are impossible to know over the phone, such as mail or newspapers piling up outside the home.
  • Contact the local post office, informing the local letter carrier that a frail elder is on his/her route and to report any worrisome signs on the property.
  • Tell the local police department that an elder lives alone in the community. This may encourage officers to give a little extra attention, especially during heat waves, cold spells, earthquakes and any other natural disasters.
  • Check with local utility companies as they may have “elder watch” programs

Tips for the far-away caregiver that isn’t quite the one in charge but nevertheless wants to help:

  • Save vacation days and personal holidays for emergency visits.
  • Set aside emergency money for those unexpected travels.
  • Call often and visit often, don’t wait until the last minute.
  • Offer the primary caregiver a welcome break. 
  • Be diplomatic. Offer your help and let the primary caregiver know that you are there to lend a helping hand. Don’t overstep your boundaries, the primary caregiver knows the situation more than you do.

Article provided by Rachele Zukerman

Posted on 3 February 2010 | Category: Senior Care

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Six Reasons Why Your Elder Needs A Friend in LaGrange, IL.

 As your elders get older, it gets harder and harder for them to maintain any kind of friendships. Friends move away, or end up in nursing homes and yes of course some pass away.  It has been said that friends are “good medicine”. New friends and old friends have the potential to enhance the quality of your elders life. Here are six reasons why:

A friend makes an excellent audience to reminisce about past experiences and relationships, which help your loved ones come to terms with their lives. Sharing such pastimeswith friends is easier than sharing it with family members who often have a vested interest in denying their loved ones past or avoiding sensitive issues.

A friend can bring fun again to your loved ones life. Family members are often consumed with providing care and financial assistance, they forget that distractions can be a good thing .  Friends just want to have a good time.

An old friend helps an elderly person maintain a sense of continuity. Friends who have known each other for decades look at each other’s faces don’t see old people.  They see each other as they were when they met. Your loved one can look at their friend and remember their first meeting whether it was in high school, college or their first roommate.

Having a friend forces an older person to be less self-absorbed and more altruistic. Friendship  compels an older person to forget about their own worries and instead worries about their friends well being.

A new friend will provide an opportunity to explore new things. There’s no need to maintain an old image with a new friend. Because there’s no common past to share, exploring new things with a new friend can be more exciting.

Having a friend to confide in helps an older person cope with problems more effectively.  When you have someone that shares the same issues, little things don’t seem so bad.  Friends can offer support, encouragement, new ideas and often just a different perspective.

Information provided by Rachel Zukerman

Posted on 30 October 2009 | Category: Senior Care

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Why Seniors Refuse To Eat In LaGrange,IL.

We spend most of our lifetime thinking about ways to eat healthy or eat in smaller portions. As we age,  the feelings don’t go away but for some seniors they find it difficult to eat and drink when they know they have to.  The majority of seniors especially the ones that require help to eat or who have an illness that is debilitating are the ones that typically have a lack of interest in food and eating.

Reasons  why Seniors don’t eat

  • Food is unappealing
  • Bowel issues
  • Loss of taste and smell
  • Trouble with using silverware
  • They live alone.
  • Loss of appetite due to certain medications.
  • Feeling rushed, not enough time.
  • Dry mouth
  • Stressed or distracted

Now that you have an understanding of why some seniors don’t eat, here are some ways to stimulate their appetite.

  • Get them involved. Invite your elder to participate in the meal preparation. Let them wash the vegetables, mix ingredients or stir the pot.
  • Be patient, don’t rush your elder when it comes to eating. If they don’t finish, try again in a few minutes.   
  • Get physical. Walking or light exercise can help stimulate appetite.
  • Don’t serve large portions. Large portions can seem overwhelming to some elders. Serve smaller meals throughout the day.  
  • Cook things that are familiar. Comfort foods are a reminder of the good old days. 
  • Try bite size foods. The easier it is for your elder to eat will eliminate any anxiety they have towards food and eating.

Posted on 15 September 2009 | Category: Senior Care

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